Some of the most
popular dating sites are Match.com, My Single Friend, E-harmony, Friend finder
and Zoosk. Some dating sites offer subscription for free while others require
payment for the opening of an account. Just like social networks such as Facebook
and others, subscriber to dating sites are required to post their profile. Significant
data that should be entered are names, gender, age, occupation, other
information and picture.
With her or his profile on a dating site, a subscriber is a game
to those people who are also seeking relationship from the internet. A message
or a view of a profile can pave a way for more interactions between two parties with exchange of communication not limited to the site. They could also communicate through the text, telephone, video chat or other means which
may lead to physical meeting and then to a romantic relationship. Marriage is
the ultimate result of interactions and contact between members.
Dating sites vary according to the services they provide to
their subscribers. There are sites that are geared towards helping a subscriber
find a spouse. Others cater to the need of those who seek for a short term (usually
sexual) relationship. And there are still others which cater to the need of
gay, lesbian or homosexual subscribers.
A subscriber has a wide range of area to search for a
potential partner. The area of his coverage is the globe, and he can search either
locally or abroad. Relative to it, some western men have found Asian women to
be their partner or spouse. Asian men on the other hand are more comfortable
seeking relationship with local rather than foreign women.
There are however pitfalls in subscribing to a dating site. Generally,
subscribers are not subjected to a background check before they are admitted membership.
Some of them might have criminal records. Others might be spammers, identity
thieves, sexual predators or into prostitution. Dating site members should be
wary of these persons to avoid being victimized by them.
Joining a dating site is one’s personal choice. To put it
bluntly, people who go there are looking romantic relationship. And those who
do are presumed to be at the legal age and are supposed to know what they are getting
themselves into. A romantic love is a personal matter between two persons
which, especially in the west, can be either a heterosexual or homosexual
relationship.
People should bear in mind that if they seek a romantic
relationship through the internet, their act should not violate prior personal
commitment that they had made with other people. It should not also break up
what is a good and harmonious relationship with a partner especially the spouse.
The internet should be used for one’s good. It should not be used as a tool to
promote one's promiscuity or immoral conduct. By and large, an internet dating
site can be an instrument to find one’s true love and happiness.
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